Tête-à-Tête

It is a one-hour conversation through drawing on your skin between 3-8 participants, including DAY Collective. There is only one rule — no words. Due to silence, people are invited to connect deeper to their own sensations, and emotions; and from this “base” form connections to others.

Supported in developing the project in 2021

Skin is both a border and a transmitter. It is the most sensitive organ with 75 km of nerves, because of which the body can form tactile impressions of the world.

Skin represents our culture, ethnicity, age and health. Tactile encounter is precisely what permits sympathy and empathy to function. Here we move beyond socio-cultural representations and stereotypes.

Within this performance  new modes of language, based on intuition, imagination, and empathy, are being explored.

Photo by Gert Jan van Rooij at during Brief Encounters’21 by Lustwarande in Tilburg

Tete-a-Tete is a conversation through drawing on your own skin with only ONE rule — no words.
Photo by Gert Jan van Rooij at during Brief Encounters’21 by Lustwarande in Tilburg
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Photo by Gert Jan van Rooij at during Brief Encounters’21 by Lustwarande in Tilburg.

Photo of the back of a participant after “Tete-a-Tete” that transformed into “In Response”, conversation on the skin of each other.

The drawing tools: eco-cosmetic pencils.

Tete-a-Tete performance at Tete-a-Tete exhibition at H401 in October,
photo by Vika Ushkanova

Tete-a-Tete experience opens up a state of playfulness.
It's a natural state of exploration and curiosity. It brings joy and relaxation. It’s also the way for us humans to develop ourselves in a new way.

Tete-a-Tete during Tete-a-Tete exhibition at Herengracht 401 in October, 2021
photo by Vika Ushkanova

Because of this embodied situation, the reasoning is resting allowing unconsciousness or rather deep consciousness to navigate one’s presence.

Tete-a-Tete during Tete-a-Tete exhibition at Herengracht 401 in October, 2021
photo by Vika Ushkanova

The participants are seated on soft sculptures.

Tete-a-Tete during Tete-a-Tete exhibition at Herengracht 401 in October, 2021
photo by Vika Ushkanova

Tete-a-Tete during Tete-a-Tete exhibition at Herengracht 401 in October, 2021
photo by Vika Ushkanova

Tete-a-Tete during Tete-a-Tete exhibition at Herengracht 401 in October, 2021
Here Tete-a-Tete, a conversation on your own skin, transformed into another our work, In Response, a conversation through drawing on each other skin.
photo by Vika Ushkanova

Tete-a-Tete during Tete-a-Tete exhibition at Herengracht 401 in October, 2021
photo by Vika Ushkanova

Tete-a-Tete during Tete-a-Tete exhibition at Herengracht 401 in October, 2021
Here Tete-a-Tete, a conversation on your own skin, transformed into another our work, In Response, a conversation through drawing on each other skin.
photo by Vika Ushkanova

Tete-a-Tete at Framer Framed, August 2021
Photo by Dee Vasilevskaya

Tete-a-Tete at Framer Framed, August 2021
Photo by Dee Vasilevskaya

Tete-a-Tete at Framer Framed, August 2021
Photo by Betul Ellialtioglu

"Tete-a-Tete seeks to remove one's alienation to one's own body by removing speech and allowing only the skin as one's only canvas to communicate. What it achieves is the realisation that what one may have drawn onto one's body is something ethereal, unable to be expressed after all in any other way, which begs the question of how limited are we truly when we rely only on the conscious effort of speaking to express our soul." - Tiffany Salud

Tete-aTete at our studio
Video documentation by Anastasija Pirojenko

Tete-a-Tete at De Nieuw Liefde, October 2021

Tete-a-Tete at De Nieuw Liefde, October 2021

"I knew I'd enjoy this experience since I heard about Tete-a-Tete; a conversation with lines and colors instead of words! I knew it because I knew this is a challenge for me and for my "constantly word making brain". But experiencing it was more than I expected. So as I sat in silence and looked and drew on my skin, my brain was as loud as ever. But it changed. I don't know how and when it happened, but at a certain point I was there and there were little words being said inside of me. I watched and drew and I even lost myself a bit in some of those moments of drawing. It felt flowing and real. Thank you for this very beautiful experience! It did good to me" — Siavash Maraghechi

Tete-a-Tete at De Nieuw Liefde, October 2021

Tete-a-Tete at De Nieuw Liefde, October 2021

"I enjoyed this tete-a-tete very much. It was magic to stop talking from the moment we entered the elevator, which was a freaky experience by itself with all those mirrrors.When we just started it seemed to me that an hour would be very long. But the more we got into it and more and more loose and creative time became irrelevant. In the beginning I was to much comparing the experience to a normal conversation, and behaved like that. But this felt like I didn't behave free. So I dropped this and just followed the flow and jumped into it on my intuition. It became a language by itself. And I felt nicely connected. When we came downstairs again and the girls were asking how it was I looked at the other participants and I saw a big transformation, not only the warrrior facepaint but we looked so relaxed as if we just came out of a sauna. What was very special for me as a bodypainter is the new input and inspiration this beautiful experience gave me for my future bodypaintings." — Laetitia

Tete-a-Tete at Outsider gallery, September 2021

Tete-a-Tete at Museum Plein August 2021

Tete-a-Tete at Museum Plein
August 2021, documentation by Aryan Jauregui

Tete-a-Tete at Museum Plein, August 2021. Video documentation by Aryan Jauregui

Tete-a-Tete at Museum Plein August 2021

Tete-a-Tete at Museum Plein
August 2021, documentation by Aryan Jauregui

“Drawing on my skin allowed me for a greater connection with my body - my hands, fingers, arms, face, eyes, ears, lips, nose. It engendered a process of becoming aware of these parts of the body, and, interestingly, it enabled me to go out of my body, to look at it from a different perspective - an imagined vision of my face I created in the process of drawing on since I was not able to see it. I had other moments in which my vantage point was still my body, behind my skin, while drawing on it.” — Iva Buzhashka

Tete-a-Tete at Museum Plein August 2021

Tete-a-Tete at Museum Plein
August 2021, documentation by Aryan Jauregui

Tete-a-Tete at Nieuw en Meer  15 August 2021

Tete-a-Tete at Nieuw en Meer
15 August 2021

“I realise that 70% of our communication is non-verbal, but this non-verbal portion does (IMO) heavily rely on the surrounding verbal communication and the context created by that. So even if the words are not the essence of what is being said, verbal communication often seems an important occasion for non-verbal one to take place. During our drawing session communication was exclusively non-verbal, yet the intuïtive communication by body language, facial expression and fysical interaction for me was far more meaningful than the drawing we did. The drawing as a part of the whole, for me, rather represented a fun 'formal' experiment and a vehicle for the subliminal, than a true means of communication.” — Yuri

Tete-a-Tete at H401 June 2021

Tete-a-Tete at Herengracht 401
June 2021

Tete-a-Tete at Prospects by Mondriaan Fonds at Art Rotterdam 1-4 July, 2021
Photo by Malgorzata Rey

Tete-a-Tete at Prospects by Mondriaan Fonds at Art Rotterdam 1-4 July, 2021
Photo by Malgorzata Rey

Tete-a-Tete at Prospects by Mondriaan Fonds at Art Rotterdam 1-4 July, 2021
Photo by Malgorzata Rey

Tete-a-Tete at Prospects by Mondriaan Fonds at Art Rotterdam 1-4 July, 2021
Photo by Malgorzata Rey

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Tete-a-Tete at Prospects by Mondriaan Fonds at Art Rotterdam 1-4 July, 2021  Photo documentation of Tete-a-Tete Online performances.

Tete-a-Tete at Prospects by Mondriaan Fonds at Art Rotterdam 1-4 July, 2021
Photo documentation of Tete-a-Tete Online performances.

Tete-a-Tete at Prospects by Mondriaan Fonds at Art Rotterdam 1-4 July, 2021  Photo documentation of Tete-a-Tete Online performances.

Tete-a-Tete at Prospects by Mondriaan Fonds at Art Rotterdam 1-4 July, 2021
Photo documentation of Tete-a-Tete Online performances.

Tete-a-Tete at Prospects by Mondriaan Fonds at Art Rotterdam 1-4 July, 2021  On the photo:  a collection of photos from Tete-a-Tete Online performances. Photo by Malgorzata Rey

Tete-a-Tete at Prospects by Mondriaan Fonds at Art Rotterdam 1-4 July, 2021
On the photo: a collection of photos from Tete-a-Tete Online performances.
Photo by Malgorzata Rey

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Tete-a-Tete at Prospects by Mondriaan Fonds at Art Rotterdam 1-4 July, 2021  Photo documentation of Tete-a-Tete Online performances.

Tete-a-Tete at Prospects by Mondriaan Fonds at Art Rotterdam 1-4 July, 2021
Photo documentation of Tete-a-Tete Online performances.

“For me the experience was both creative and somehow it felt like an intimate conversation. Not sexual. Sensual .. physical. Like we were all dancing very intimately with feeling of the strokes on our skin. But also dancing with eachother.” — Jeroen Hoekstra

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“Right now the world feels full of noise, but to be with and create collectively with spontaneous scribbles and lines was more powerful and reassuring than numerous theater pieces/films and I’ve binged on these few months.”—Jennifer Carss

Tete-a-Tete Online captured by Sander Weeda

Tete-a-Tete Online captured by Sander Weeda

Tete-a-Tete in our studio captured by Anastasia Bougiaka

Tete-a-Tete in our studio captured by Anastasia Bougiaka